Thank you salukigirl. I can see you struggled with your issues and hopefully you are well now. As for my daughter, I have to gain my own perspective and stop trying to fix things. I can only be here if she is ever willing to do the healthy thing. I think this started so fast and has been so long now, it's what she is accustomed to. As long as she believes his lies and puts up with his behavior and not working/losing jobs all the time, then I can only hope she realizes the effects on the children. Very sad, indeed. Let's hope that day comes where she has the will to change her life for the better. Thanks again so much and I only hope the best for you.