I just had a hysterectomy and we cannot have children now...it has caused my husband to go into a tailspin...he is depressed, bitter, angry, distant, and disengaged from marraige.....he feels what is left if we cannot have kids....I feel as if he has fallen out of love with me because I cannot give him a child ...we are considering adoption....but he is so distant....if he can spend time wiht the guys he will...hates being near me.....it is awful