I went to court with my bf to give him the emotional support that he needs. While I was there I listened to what his ex-wife had to say and soon I learned new information about their separation and child custody. Doubts soon began to seep in and I don't know what to believe anymore. She portrays him to be a selfish father and it is very hard to listen to. She had said that from the time child custody was put into place by the court it only took two months for him to stop seeing his kids. He said that because of work he couldn't see his kids for one week and because of that week she got upset and made things difficult for him to see the kids further on. Soon enough she stop dropping off the kids and they both gave up on the court order. She saids that it was all him that stopped seeing the kids for no particular reason.

We went to court bc she wants full custody and move out of state and at the same time wanting him to pay full child support. He's always paid for support and never have argued about it. He wants to see his kids and has hired an attorney to represent him. Like most divorce with kids, it is a ugly battle.

How must I deal with these court proceedings? How do I support him and not get overly involved? Who should I trust? Should it matter what she said?