I don't think he's put pressure on her, so telling her to look at things twice is misleading. This isn't your daughter and she doesn't seem to be in an abusive relationtship, in fact this guy got her over one.

The issue here is trust and fear. He obviously said he didn't want to pressure you into something you didn't want to do, so he is trustworthy because he is happy for you to wait and see what develops.

Enjoy what you have for now and see if it deveops further as you develop further. You're young and have plenty of time. As the old addage goes "Act in haste, repent at leisure",

Rhiannon