So, after much deliberating, and ranting, and whining about my mom that denies my dx...
I sat her down, gave her the official BP talk, gave her a BP fact sheet and highlighted all
MY symptoms
PLUS, wait for it...wait for it...I handed her
ALL MY THREADS 
(WOW, don't know how I pulled that off)...and told her
not to read them at night
cos it's kinda warped.
POINT?
She's being much nicer

(not that she was horrid to begin with, just unsupportive) When she sees me looking a tad irritable,or whatever, she
brings me tea, encourages me to eat so I can take
MY MEDS,
YES! the very meds she wanted to flush

and is generally WAY more understanding of ME in GENERAL. It's almost like being accepted for the very first time in 10 years!!!!

I know she's always loved me, but she's NEVER "got me", I think to a certain extent, she does now...
Just wanted to share something warm and fuzzy and also say
THANKS TO MY PC FAMILY, YOU GUYS WERE MY INSPIRATION AND STRENGTH