If there's one thing that I know has helped me, it's that I have to face my fears if they are becoming plain and obvious to me that they are impeding me in some way. I've started to recognize some fears of my own and I am still uncertain as to what to do to deal with them, but I do know that talking to someone about it helps out a lot. Try going back to the counselor again. Do what I did and write down what you're going through and either show it to the counselor or mail it to them and request an appointment. Though I'd just make the appointment upright then bring in your list to show to the counselor, and come up with ways to try and solve your problems.

I'm actually thinking of doing the same again when I make a counseling appointment in the next few weeks or so, mainly since I tend to get so nervous talking to other people face to face about my problems that I think I might leave some things out or do something so that the problem doesn't get solved correctly or at all.

We'll be here for you all the way.