So very sad. Paddy will be loved and remembered always as such a kind wonderful caring person who always wanted to help others. I have started a candle group at a website called gratefulness.org. The candle room ( "group" )for Paddy is for anyone who would like to go and light a virtual candle for him. The room ( group ) will stay open as long as one candle is lit for him. Each candle stays lit for 48 hours. You can write a short message for him as well, when you light the candle. I find the place very soothing and comforting.
http://www.gratefulness.org/candles/candles.cfm?l=eng&gi=Paddy I hope it helps. Sending love and blessings during this very sad time. Please feel free to tell others about this candle group room that has been open to honor Paddy.