[QUOTEOne other option (and this is to make you laugh hopefully) is to wear dark sunglasses... then he can't see where you are looking xxxx ][/QUOTE] ,, seems very deceptive to me and from experience,the sunglasses would make him feel worse ,as if your trying to hide your looking...there is a difference,in my opinion,in the way you look at people..if you are just curious as to what is going on around you then take a look around..it is probably if you stop and stare at the people when he becomes so insecure,,if what the other people are doing have no impact on your activity at the time then who cares what everyone else is doing,paying attention to him and what you are doing together shows you are invested in the two of you..maybe it makes him feel like he is not enough to keep you interested in your life with him,or wishing for someone more physically attractive than him..past actions are are very hard to get over when someone tells you they changed,maybe he is looking for things that proves otherwise because he doesnt want to be hurt anymore and feel "good enough for you".he may have alot of anger..idk the way to prove to him you have changed but if in your heart you know you have he will have to eventually believe it or your relationship will continue to be a painful one....stop beating yourself up for the past and work on your future ..