I think I'd like to join this club. Do you have t-shirts?

I think it's important to take some time for yourself after a serious break up. If you go diving into another relationship right after you'll end up hurting yourself and possibly that other person. It's good to just be selfish sometimes I've resolved not to look for a relationship until I get a firm grasp of who I am. I've completely forgotten to be me during my last relationship because I spent so much damn time trying to make her happy, and last night I was just talking to an old friend and I realized I didn't even recognize who I was. I was saying and doing things I haven't said and done in about two years. It was almost scary.

So yay for being single! -high fives- It's a hard thought to get used to but it's better to be single than to be locked in an unhappy relationship.