Lauru; I'm sorry you have hurt feelings. Have you considered that her telling you how she was feeling is just her being open and honest with you? I know it can sting when a partner brings up something one is sensitive about, but I would prefer my partner be honest with me than bottle it up inside which could eventually result in them having resentment towards me. Every relationship has it's struggles and no person is perfect diagnosed or not. Just wanted to give a different perspective.