I hated the way my ex hubby was treating MY house ! I moved out as he wouldnt but he was not looking after it ! Then he had a girlfriend come visit while MY children was there ! I was devestated even though I didnt want him it was still my home my children.

I saw a therapist and she said to me........ You will never change him he is what he is accept it take the money from the house he owes you and let it go.

I walked out of there feeling a ton of weight had been lifted from my shoulders, she was right I had to let it go.

He paid me out and I made out in my head that I had sold the house. As for the children all I could do was NEVER listen to them about him or talk to them about him except to say he loves you still....

My older two love him but hate him however wont have a bad word said about me as I wont and never have ran him down.

You have to let it go hun.