Seems pretty straight forward to me. Firstly, be more sympathetic to your husband. If you are voicing a desire for more children, might he not have the same feelings. He's allowed to feel too. Focus more on your gratitude that you have a child. Many cannot and will never experience that kind of joy. Not to mention that you are still married to the father of your child. Sounds to me there is a lack of gratitude for what you have. If you are focused on what is right in your life, hopefully what you don't have will not come up. Remember, we are at war, the economy is tanked and many people don't have even what you do. Now is not the time really for anyone to be having big families. Something to remind people of when they advise you have another baby.