I have been dating a guy for 3 years now, he is a good boyfriend and has always been good to me. I wish I could say that our relationship had any real serious problems but it just does not. I am mainly worried about our lack of intimacy, I just do not feel as attracted to him as I use to. I love having him around I just don't know if I like him more as a friend and room mate or as a boyfriend.

To complicate things I meet a guy at a recent event that I went to that is very cute and also very nice. I would never cheat on my boyfriend, but I have been having conversations with this man that are possibly not appropriate. Nothing has happened but I can't say I don't want it to. I don't know if it is that I just need something sexual or what it is but I do not know how to deal with this.

I love my current boyfriend and can not imagine not having him in my life anymore, but I don't know if I want him in my life the way he is now. Has any one else had any thing like this happen? Is it possible to have a relationship like this and be friends afterwords? How do I tell him how I feel? Also will I regret not being with him after it all happens?

Please help me!