Hello Jenn,

This isn't really good....You are entitled to tell him no and be respected. And you are not bound to be lectured for it. You're a grown woman.

Hmmm...maybe this was one of the things his ex meant when she said "selfish"

Don't allow him to bully you and certainly don't let him say
"I know you don't want sex but would you mind laying down while I have some???"

Don't allow him to be uncaring in any way, pout your foot down and tell him right off that your body is to be respected and so are your mind and your decisions.

Take care,

Rhiannon