Hello firerescue214, I met your fiance the other day in here somewhere.

Miscarriage is a very difficult thing to go through. I miscarried twins one at 5 months and the other at 8. It was devastating to lose those boys. I really feel for you and your finace.

Allow time to grieve and don't put a time limit on it; everyone is different some will be over it in weeks, others never get over it. Having some special peaceful place to go to dedicate to the baby helps; somewhere to think about the baby and somewhere you can walk away feeling as though you have spent time with the baby in spirit, helps.

Other than that all I can do is offer you support and tell you that I am so terribly sorry,

Rhiannon