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I'm really sorry you are going through this. I had to have a hysterectomy at 34 a couple of years after I lost twins at 5 then 8 months. I have tumours and nasty unterine changes happening so I didn't have a choice at all.

Few women choose hysterectomy, if it is done it is usually done to save your life, it was with me. I felt so lost, but I was mourning Daniel and David too so I guess it was compounded.

I really do know how you are feeling and all I can say is try to ride it out. Suggest counselling for him, singular and as a couple. this is a loss for you both not just him; definitely he needs to consider you as well as himself. He needs to know the pain you are going through, you are the one who lost your right to have children.

I gather for some reason none of your eggs frozen before the surgery? Sometimes they will do that to create IVF babies from your eggs and your hubbys sperm then find a surrogate.

Give him time to grieve but remind him that you are grieving too and that you need the one who promised to love you for better or for worse,

Sending you hugs,

Rhiannon