firerescuer214 I so feel for you! It is very hard! I have had 4 miscarriages all around the 12-16 week mark. I know it is a painful and lonely experience. It's hard not to self blame and close the world off.

There must be a support system in place. I know for me I wanted a lot of reassurance, cuddle time and therapy is always good. After my last and it tore me to pieces. I didn't have some one's shoulder to cry on (my ex had decided he was done trying with me, for lack of a better explanation.) and I felt very alone, confused and angry.

Since this is one of my main reasons for seeking therapy, I'm not sure that I can tell you how to "get over it", only can say that I support you and I understand how you are feeling.