Hello yessi
No one can give you a guarantee that he won't hurt you again. We are humans and we are fallible and when people drink alcohol they are going to have their mood enhanced too bad if they are in an arsehole of a mood...they also think their sexuality and allure is a whole lot more than it is. But at least whoever tagged the pic didn't catch your bf with a woman so that should set your mind at rest some.
Honestly the only way to feel ok is to let it all go and invite peace into your mind and heart. We've all been there more than once yessi and it's only when we find our one & only that those insecurities don't seem to matter.
I've got a man who has a 360 degree swivel head when it comes to women...but that is him, just because he likes to look doesn't mean he wants to hump. Half the time I think he's wondering what aperture he would use or what shutter speed or light he'd need if he were photographing the building behind her; don't just assume he's looking at a girl, it could be a really cool car or motorcycle and you've noticed well before he has that theres a woman there...and do you know why? because you are looking for the woman, you are expecting that he will look and you're going to be ready!
Give yourself a rest and try completely relaxing for a change, you may find that if you aren't grumpy he won't want to leave you for his friends as much, or he'll involve you in the conversations...
Give your trouble to the wind to whisk away and enjoy the time you are out and at hoome together without the stress of you looking for another woman for him...
Take care,
Rhiannon
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Peace, the deep imperturbable peace is right there within you, quieten the mind and slow the heart and breathe...breathe in the perfume of the peace rose and allow it to spread throughout your mind body and senses...it can only benefit you and those you care about...I care about you
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