Oceanwave, don't get yer hair shirt on. nobody owes me any apologies but I owe one to Treehouse; what I wrote was inaccurately said and I'm worried that she thinks she said something hurtful (and of course did not!).

The whole issue of extra time is something that T and I are going to have to talk about over and over (I am already sick of it but the spirals continue so what can I do, just work on it). I only wish she could really understand from my point of view.

OR - maybe she does, and keeps doing it anyway through some therapist logic that through repeated incidents, eventually the spirals will lessen (not so far) or my feelings will change (not so far). sneeeeky therapists