Wow Jen,

Anyone that can be as open and honest about themselves as you have been in this post is rare and refreshing.
Honesty and caring make you a friend, you don't have to DO anything else.

By the way, just so ya know, I'm the worst speller in the world so don't anyone else try to take that title. I have worn out the check spelling button and sometimes it can't even figure out what I'm trying to spell.

Twinks