Thread: do you care?
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Old Aug 13, 2010, 11:37 AM
KathyM KathyM is offline
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Originally Posted by Myers View Post
May I take the test?

1. I imagine she will feel sad, stricken with grief, probably in shock for awhile and confused. Not willing to accept it. But I can't feel those emotions for myself. So, while I can surmise how she feels using descriptions that are, for the most part, meaningless to me, I cannot describe to you what the aforementioned emotions actually feel like. So ... no, not really.

2. No. But that doesn't necessarily mean I won't make an effort to help her.

You can use me as a basis for the lowest end of the "empathy spectrum."
Thanks Myers What would you be able to do for the orphan - or was that just hypothetical, in case she decides to go jump in the lake...and you happen to be in town. If that's the case, feel free to stop by for coffee.

Don't go giving yourself any gold stars for scoring lowest on the empathy level. My particular spectrum has no beginning or end - it's just one big ole ball of confusion.