hi TTBM, nice to hear from you.
this was my whole thought
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Originally Posted by Verbascum
Can you be ready to stop, if you're actually not even ready to talk about it?
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well, one additional thought, which is that yr T sounds wonderful for you, and is not goiing to dump you. I bet T would feel gratified and happy

to hear that there are things you can now do on your own; but when you are really ready to terminate, you will know it.
I say that because from time to time I think to myself "I'm done" and at same time I know, deep down, that I am nowhere near it!
wishing you great peace