Well this brings up an important point. How do you take to a spouse about how to deal with a bo partner? My own experience is that I've put my wife through enough bs already. I'm always the sensitive one. She always has to pick up my slack. Truthfully I'm lucky she hasn't left my *** already. I've been a selfish jerk for years. I'm going to guess other's have similar situations. So how do we tell them now that she's got to be more sensitive to my needs? I want to be less of a burden...not more of one.

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