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Originally Posted by sittingatwatersedge
well, one additional thought, which is that yr T sounds wonderful for you, and is not going to dump you. I bet T would feel gratified and happy  to hear that there are things you can now do on your own; but when you are really ready to terminate, you will know it.
I say that because from time to time I think to myself "I'm done" and at same time I know, deep down, that I am nowhere near it! 
wishing you great peace  |
Thank you sittingatwatersedge. You make very good points here. I know my T would be happy to hear all the good things that I have accomplished. The few little things I have told him, he has been very proud of me. Even just the tiniest things. He really is geunily concered about his patient and even gets emotional when bad things start happened or are happening to them. Thank you again.
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Originally Posted by Eileen2010
If it's getting monotonous, and you are covering the same thing every week
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Sometimes it really seems this way. Others it doesn't.
[/quote]I can tell you aren't ready to terminate yet, and you really don't have to until you are ready.[/quote]
This is true that I don't have to, but I do feel a burden on him also. I'm just really confused. So many feelings around this.