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And really, if the objective is to learn how not to get to a breaking point and we miss that somehow, then the plan B is about learning how to cause the least amount of damage, to yourself, to others to your relationships with others.


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Thanks for your reply gonnagetcha.
I've read the above several times and am going to continue to give it more thought. I know that many times in the process of trying to prevent ourselves from reaching that breaking point, we hurt others and end relationships. Maybe that is the reason for the sadness that I feel now.