((((Indie))))

Sorry you are so rocked by this, but don't worry too much at the moment. Going to counselling is a good sign that there may be issues but they want to work them out as a couple a married couple.

I don't agree with keeping it from your T because it is having a dramatic effect on you and that will only ripple out as time goes on. So I honestly think you should tell your T and explain to your mum that it bothers you so much and you are very worried about what will happen to your family. She should understand that and it shouldn't cause her a problem because it is your T not hers.

I'm thinking about you and supporting you completely. You are so young and though its good your mum & you are close, it wasn't really right for her to tell you they were going to counselling....it's a worry you don't need at the moment. But she did tell you and it is something that needs to be discussed with your T because of the effect.

Lotsa ((((((((hugs))))))))