Hi Dreaming! I have this problem too. I have made some bad choices with people in the past ... ie not letting someone go completely when the connection was in effect probably over, or damaged, and so getting hurt more, by someone who was abusive, deceitful or terminally selfish. I also saw a therapist who I feel betrayed my trust. I am getting better though ... and I am starting to let more people get closer. I'm trying, anyway ... I don't think it is necessarily helpful to see this as a black and white thing ... that you simply can't trust. (Perhaps you can learn ... ... ) Maybe if you hang out with us here, we can help you a little. It seems that many of us have trust issues ... as Willow said, it is often related to abuse. Well, I hope this made some kind of sense ... probably not.

Take care,
Fuzzy