One of my friends from church is expecting a very unexpected baby in December. She's struggled with depression in the past and I'm sure it won't suddenly stop being an issue just because she's had a baby! I want to give her the 2010 copy of Thomas Hale's book, Medications and Mother's Milk, at her shower but I wonder, would you be offended? Would you take it as me ASSUMING she's going to "need" it? (which, admittedly, I am). I'm half thinking of giving it at EVERY baby shower I attend from now on, it's so important and an issue so close to home for me. Tiff would just be my first foray into it.