I think (for me) that coping is a learned behavior. It takes a long time to develop. I don't "choose" not to cope well, I just don't always know to do it. It is difficult changing the way we have been dealing with our issues for years. Almost like a left handed person trying to learn to use their right hand. Eventually it will happen, I'll gradually learn to cope, and that habit will form.
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never mind...
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