Hello Nick,

Wow you really do have a lot on your plate. You've given in and "got over" much more than any other man would. If you love her and think there is a good possibility to change then I'd say go ahead.

However, honestly I think she is using you only when she wants something, which is totally obvious. She travells everywhere to be with "the guy" and treats you like dirt.

I would get the divorce get your son build your house and try to forget her; you are a really nice guy and you deserve a really nice woman

Rhiannon