(((Lynn)))

I am sorry you have to be going through similar feelings and events. Thank you for responding.

Are we supposed to care about these feelings on behalf of ourselves?

There was no reason to be divorced but due to his outburts of anger and verbal abuse we could no longer live together in the same house together and have been separated for many, many years.

Do you make and eat meals at the same time?

In the meantime we raised the children as amicably as possible and they are grown now.

Do you have children still at home?