At first it was my post and it happened twice in my post. Then I was reading another post in which a new member was expressing serious feelings and it was done to this person as well.

I think it is time to explain again:

DO NOT post messagess or off topic replies in anyones thread. If you have a personal message for someone, please PM that person. It is disrespectful to the original poster and makes them feel like their post is unimportant.