Dear, you don't know what this man is gonna do. So you better be ready to take care of yourself and the children. Maybe he would go to therapy but first he said he wouldn't. And I know from experience about people listening to family. Oh, yeah, they know all the answers. He's going hot and cold. That is the reason less to trust him. Bipolars need stability and love and understanding. They give that in return. You can stay there but plan to get on your own 2 feet. I have a really bad feeling about this. Hugs, Owl.