Pachyderm and Verbascum.
This is just wrong and horrible to think this. You should never think of your T as a bad guy/person, whatever. I would never want to do that to anyone. Even if I had a T who I thought was bad at being a T. I don't even know what more to say about your posts other than it is absolutly absurd to think this way.
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Originally Posted by pachyderm
If you can manage to turn your T into a bad guy inside your head, it probably will be easier to end therapy. You know, sort of like with the Iraqis: if they hate you, it will be easier for them to tell you to go to...  Then they will have to depend on themselves. |
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Originally Posted by Verbascum
Yeah I try that every day now I have to decide whether to quit therapy or not!
The problem is that the good and the bad are about equal. When I think of how gentle my T is with my dissociation, I'm very sure I want to stay.
When I think about everything else she did (everything else! which is a lot!) then I decide to quit as soon as possible.
I try to convince myself to focus on the bad things as you say, Pachyderm, but when the dissociation comes up... well, I guess I just dissociate on this decision too |