PF
Her dad is an abusive (2ward me)drug addict. When I left him I did n0t initially revoke his parental rights. She told me that she didn't want n0r need such a ****** daddy,she's g0t mine. In the 2yrs since we broke up,he came to see her (see n0t visit) 4TIMES,and he lives 10MINUTES AWAY. I spoke to her about him and that's when we decided that n0 dad would be the better option than a part time 1,but she can change her mind anytime should she miss him. He's never really been involved in her life,that was his choice all along. I involve her in the decisions I make b/c it's important for me to know how she feels before I decide anything that affects her. Might n0t be conventional,but that's how I do it. Thanks for your input tho,a fresh perspective is much appreciated.