Yes I understand how you feel and you can live a simple life in 2010. Since you feel this way, you should start planning so you can live this kind of life. In fact 'simple living' is one of the recommendations for living a happy life.

Think how it's been for most people - working like crazy to buy the biggest house, nicest car, all the latest toys/gadgets. This means they have to work longer hours and get deeper in debt where they won't have enough time to enjoy those things.

The solution is: live below your means, spend your money wisely and you don't need to keep up with the Jone's. Live your life according to your rules and not the rest of society. Live somewhere you don't have a neighbor one foot away.

When I was your age, I regret not having someone to guide me. I recommend you start thinking about what you want to do later in life career wise. Make sure you stay focused on school so you'll always be self sufficient if you're alone (I made this mistake).

I think many people spend more time on the computer or texting than quality time with others.