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Aug 16, 2010, 11:23 AM
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Member Since: Jun 2007
Location: Chicago, Illinois
Posts: 5,518
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((Hunny)) and (((Lynn)))
Hunny, I had no idea you were going through all of this.  I hope my playful post in the Video Forum didn't offend you. The title and content of your thread made me giggle. 
My sister is your age and recently tackled/is tackling the same problem. I used to think she married a perfect man and had the perfect marriage. So did she. After 24 years, it became loveless, but still cordial. In an attempt to renew their spark, my sister requested couples counseling. All was going well, when he blurted out during a session that he wanted a divorce because he met someone else - a younger woman. This totally blind-sided her.
They divorced, and he married the other woman. My sister is still struggling to find her way on this new path she was forced to walk, but she's keeping her head up as best she can.
New phases in life are always difficult. From the beginning, it's a series of hurdles. I hope something comes along soon to give you the motivation to tackle this hurdle. 
In the meantime, my offer still stands. Just remember - One, two, three...AND. 
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