I understand your concern. There are a lot of things to consider. I am proud to say I am a professional aunt and I am very good at it. Plus, I love being a great-aunt. My sister had problems during her pregnancies so we are very thankful for her girls. My husband and I have never taken a vacation without one or both of the girls. We love spoiling children and by God, we are good at it. So, if anyone has any children that need spoiling, send them our way. LOL