((((((Zoo ))))))) Wow! What a night you had! I bet you are right that T has something else going on in her life. Or she may be beating herself up that she made the suggestion to you and it hurt more than helped. My T does that sometimes I think, even though he tries to not let me see that. I can see he will say something that triggers me and he will see my shift and then he tries to use his magic T eraser to make it all better but it makes a smudge instead and I can see in his eyes that he is frustrated. I have to work hard to realize he is not upset with me, but at the process sometimes. Then when he sees I am doing better and giving him a little room to not be a perfect T, he is able to relax and then he is my great T once again.

Not sure if any of this will hit home for you, but did want to share.