Tough love for DIDers?? Is she more psycho than I thought? (Hint: YES!!) Ugh. I think just the fact that someone has DID means they've had enough "tough love" for 5 lifetimes!!!!! Makes me mad that she's that stupid. For behavioral problems or a spoiled teen, MAYBE (key word: MAYBE) that would work. But she has to be absolutely daft to try that on people who just need REAL love; nurturing, caring, someone to trust. To me, "tough love" means "I say I'm trying to help you but really just f*cking up your head"! Ugh. Even as a parent I would never use that. It's useless!!!! Sorry, ranting, yet again