Been there, done that, don't qualify.

Spouse always did our income tax...stymied to find out she hasn't filed either one of ours for 3 years.

I wish I had checked that it was done...who knew? She's been lying to me until it came up as a necessity in the home modification loan process.

I'm so angry with her, and me.

P.S. I've been carrying this around for a few weeks. Today, it had to come out. I wanted to spill it out here because you guys are friends to me. Telling anyone else right now seems too difficult, embarrassing and...and shameful.