T and I hug at the end of every session. It feels safe and good and right. Sometimes when it's been a really hard session, he will sort of rest his head on the top of my head (he's tall, I'm really short).

I guess the hugs are different depending on what's going on. Usually it's a "I like you, we're good and connected" kind of hug. If I'm sad or crying, he'll rub my back a little. When I feel super grateful or happy or connected I give him a big squeeze at the end

I'm really huggy with some people, not so much with others. With T, it feels right.

I am trying to remember the first time we hugged....we had had other physical contact before that...I really can't remember it. But I'm sure if I had a few hours I could find a post about it somewhere on PC

I'm actually really glad that I have physical touch with my T. It feels VERY safe and comfortable and reassuring and connecting. I think that if there was some kind of "mystery" around it, or if it was a Huge Deal, I might feel more sexual undertones to things. As it is, I don't feel that at all. There's no big mystery...there's just comfort. For *me*, that helps.