Hey thanks. That sounds very convincing.
Yes too many lies. I actually stopped all contact with him. He seems pretty angry but I don't care. I made it very clear that I wanted more, that I wouldn't accept a girlfriend etc... But since I played along for so long, he had no reason to believe I would really quit the game. So I actually did it this week. I cancelled all my appointments at his working place and I won't show up anymore.
He is a compulsive liar. He doesn't think twice about it which explains the wild contradictions. Yes, a relationship would have been tough I guess.
Thanks for your advice!