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Originally Posted by mixedup_emotions
The emotional involvement is torture to me....
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Hmmmm........ Can you talk about this in therapy?
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Originally Posted by mixedup_emotions
It's also really scary to me that T can be so gentle and caring....and then other times be a total bully and threatening to terminate if I didn't do what he felt was in my best interest. To me, that's just as dysfunctional as real life. ....
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This is so normal. This is taking care of yourself. It is also normal to keep moving forward and to not stop working in the relationship so that it is good for you.
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........
I'm an ISFJ
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