(((((((((((((((((pat)))))))))))))))))))) i think you made a very wise decision. btw, you're not giving up, you're PUTTING OFF for a better time and opportunity!

You are going thru so much right now. well, your precious family is, so that means you are. there are times we have to pick our battles, friend, and this is one of those i think.

so many times i didn't have the insight that you're having right now and became the "jack of all trades and master of none". i barely made it because i wouldn't pick the important things. subsequently, those around me suffered as well.

i think you are so very wise. i think you are doing all the awesome things you should be doing. what a role model!

be safe, dear.

kd