Oh, Notz, Notz, Notz!
It's so easy to become completely overwhelmed by economics that you blot it all out because you're so frightened. Are you sure that that isn't the situation with your wife? In our family I (husband) do all the bill paying and tax filing. And my wife takes advantage of that to just completely tune out of the reality of our (awful) economic situation. She won't even share her social security check to pay bills with. Myself, I'm terrified. We don't even have enough to hire a lawyer and go bankrupt. And so we both drink everyday. And drink. And drink. As long as there's twenty dollars for a 1.75 liter bottle of cheap brandy. I guess there's nothing more to say, except please make sure your wife doesn't have a good excuse before you get really angry at her.
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We must love one another AND die.
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