((((((ellie))))))

well, I'm really glad you went, I know that wasn't easy. I'm confused by your Ts behavior, as you are I'm sure. What did he say about his statement about not wanting to hear about certain things? It really sucks that he was defensive and then minimized your (legitimate!) emotional reactions by saying you were blowing it out of proportion. I'm really sorry.

I think it's great that you're willing to go back next week & keep working through this. I have wanted to quit T a lot of times (like now) but I keep going and our relationship is stronger because of it. Hang in there.