Hi ...

My wife gets much angry when I oppose anything she talks about my family.She does not like even if I smile with my mother and sister's while talking and she talks in a wrong way about it. She has deleted their numbers from my cell phone.At times not having food and goes to bed and simply curling when she is angry.
Actually my parents and siblings not like she is thinking.They will adjust whatever for me and much closer as I am their elder son/brother.I am so generous and allowing her to visit her parents/relatives but she does not like If I say I want to go my home to visit parents.

I dont know how to deal/treat her and so much frustated and not able to concentrate at work.Please help me out.
She wants me to neglect my family totally ..even If I tell their name she says dont need me and does not listen her parents words as well ..they ask me to adjust...adjust

I dont want to lose my self respect and adjust

Please help me out