I definitely can relate to this post. I have fine hair though and loved my short cut on one hand, being off my neck but I have been growing it out so it is long again; I was tired w/ the short having to style it all the time. I like that w/ long even if it is still wet I can braid it or twist it up in a clip and go. I try not to blow dry it except for short notice things or dressier events, or keep heavier conditioners on hand for the days I do this. I get frustrated too though with the long, especially this summer. It is cheaper though! Can't seem to win. I don't have answers but I understand this frustration all too well!