I've been attending both my girls soccer games for 6 yrs. It's up to you to socialize or not and I truly don't care what the other parents look like. Most of the parents are too busy watching the game and cheering their kids on. Get yourself one of those portable chairs and a pair of sunglasses and enjoy the game. Sit with your teams side and sometimes we talk about the passes or how hot it is or what ever comes to mind. You'll be fine.